Aligning Desires: Humility and True Repentance
Summary
The sermon titled "Rooted 5 (James 4:1-10)" delves into the significance of aligning our desires with God's will, the process of repentance, and the importance of humility. The speaker, whose name is not discernible from the title, begins by encouraging continuous submission to God and resistance to the devil. This submission leads to a life filled with joy, peace, and less frustration, as Christians align their desires with those of Christ. The speaker expresses excitement for those experiencing life changes and emphasizes the church's commitment to wholeheartedly follow God, even if it requires doing things differently.
The sermon series "Rooted" examines the roots of our thoughts and desires, questioning why we act as we do. The speaker points out that our actions are driven by our desires, and it is crucial to discern between good and sinful desires. The speaker also shares a prayer for Pastor Randy, expressing gratitude for his faithfulness and support.
Humility is highlighted as a key aspect of repentance, with the speaker explaining that true repentance involves being humbled and putting oneself in a position to listen and learn. The sermon draws from James chapter 4, verses 6-10, and emphasizes the need to submit to God, resist the devil, draw near to God, cleanse one's heart and hands, and humble oneself before the Lord. The speaker also discusses the role of pride in creating idols in our lives and the necessity of submitting these idols to God.
The speaker further emphasizes the need for radical change in our lives, not just a simple apology, to truly repent. This may involve the radical amputation of the object of sin. The sermon also touches on the different ways our desires can be wrong, such as desiring something sinful, responding sinfully when we don't get what we want, or having selfish motives. The transformation of our desires to align with Christ's is possible only through ongoing repentance.
The speaker encourages listeners to ask God to remove any idols or areas that hinder their relationship with Him, emphasizing that this is a lifelong journey of learning and growth. The church is called to surrender their desires and plans in exchange for God's. The speaker also provides a list of eight questions for self-reflection.
The sermon concludes by discussing the consequences of our actions and the importance of pleasing God in our actions, attitudes, and responses. The speaker suggests that the first step is to repent humbly before the Lord and then strive to please God by submitting to Him and resisting the devil. The speaker also shares a personal example of how their plans for life were different from God's, highlighting the need to exchange our hearts and desires for Christ's in every aspect of life.
Key Takeaways:
- True repentance is characterized by humility and a willingness to be shaped by God's will. It is not merely about feeling sorry but involves a radical transformation of our desires and actions, aligning them with God's desires. This process is ongoing and requires a humble heart that is open to learning and growing in Christ. [10:05]
- Our actions are often driven by deep-seated desires, and when these desires become more important than our relationship with God, they turn into idols. To combat this, we must practice self-examination and be willing to let go of anything that takes precedence over God, even if it means making significant sacrifices in our lives. [13:18]
- The journey of faith involves a continuous struggle against sin and the devil. As believers, we are called to submit to God and resist the devil actively. This submission is not passive but requires conscious effort and the grace of God to overcome the temptations and idols that can easily entangle us. [06:39]
- Pleasing God should be the ultimate goal of our actions, attitudes, and responses. This means seeking guidance from the Bible and submitting to God's authority in all areas of life, including our submission to governmental authorities and other institutions. By doing so, we not only honor God but also set a positive example for others to follow. [44:18]
- Humility is the gateway to exaltation in Christ. By humbling ourselves before the Lord, acknowledging our need for repentance, and surrendering our desires to God, we open ourselves up to His transformative work in our lives. This humility is not a sign of weakness but a recognition of our dependence on God's grace and mercy. [24:24]
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide: Rooted 5 (James 4:1-10)
#### Bible Reading
- James 4:6-10
#### Observation Questions
1. According to James 4:6, what does God do to the proud and what does He give to the humble?
2. What are the steps mentioned in James 4:7-8 for drawing near to God?
3. In the sermon, what are the three indicators that a desire might be sinful? ([02:29])
4. How does the speaker describe the process of repentance and its importance in the Christian life? ([05:57])
#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why is humility emphasized as a crucial aspect of repentance in James 4:6-10? How does this align with the sermon’s message about the need for a humble heart? ([09:27])
2. The sermon mentions that our desires can turn into idols. How does this concept relate to the idea of being "double-minded" as mentioned in James 4:8? ([18:31])
3. What does it mean to "submit to God and resist the devil" in practical terms, according to the sermon? How does this dual action help in overcoming sinful desires? ([06:39])
4. The speaker talks about radical change and even "radical amputation" of sin. How does this concept reflect the seriousness of repentance as described in James 4:9? ([19:18])
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you had to humble yourself before God. What was the outcome, and how did it affect your relationship with Him? ([24:24])
2. Identify any idols in your life that might be taking precedence over your relationship with God. What steps can you take to remove these idols? ([13:18])
3. The sermon emphasizes the need for ongoing repentance. How can you incorporate a lifestyle of repentance into your daily routine? ([05:57])
4. Think about a specific area in your life where you have not yet submitted to God. What practical steps can you take this week to submit this area to Him? ([07:24])
5. The speaker encourages asking God to remove any idols or areas that hinder your relationship with Him. Spend some time in prayer this week asking God to reveal these areas to you. What did you discover, and how will you act on it? ([41:53])
6. How can you actively resist the devil in your daily life? Identify one temptation you face regularly and develop a plan to resist it with God's help. ([06:39])
7. The sermon concludes with a call to exchange our hearts and desires for Christ's. What specific desires or plans do you need to surrender to God, and how will you go about doing this? ([27:15])
This guide is designed to help your small group delve deeper into the themes of humility, repentance, and aligning our desires with God's will as discussed in the sermon "Rooted 5 (James 4:1-10)." Use these questions to foster meaningful discussion and personal reflection.
Devotional
Day 1: Humility Paves the Path to Repentance
True repentance is not just a moment of sorrow but a journey of transformation, requiring a humble heart willing to be molded by God's will. It's a process that demands continuous reflection and a readiness to align one's desires and actions with those of the Divine. This humility is not a sign of weakness but a testament to one's reliance on God's grace and strength. [10:05]
James 4:6-10 - "But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: 'God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.' Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up."
Reflection: In what ways have you experienced the need for humility in your own journey of repentance?
Day 2: Dethroning Idols to Honor God
Idols are not just ancient statues but anything that takes precedence over God in our lives. It's essential to identify and relinquish these idols, which can be as subtle as desires or as overt as possessions, to truly honor God. This act of surrender is a testament to one's faith and commitment to the Divine relationship. [13:18]
Ezekiel 14:6 - "Therefore say to the house of Israel, 'This is what the Sovereign Lord says: Repent! Turn from your idols and renounce all your detestable practices!'"
Reflection: What idols have you allowed to take root in your life, and how can you begin to remove them to focus more on God?
Day 3: Actively Submitting to God's Authority
Submission to God is an active stance against sin and the devil, requiring not just passive acknowledgment but a conscious effort to seek God's grace and overcome temptations. This active submission is a daily commitment to live under God's authority and guidance. [06:39]
1 Peter 5:6-7 - "Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you."
Reflection: How can you practice active submission to God in your daily life, and what steps can you take to resist the temptations that challenge your commitment?
Day 4: Pleasing God in All We Do
Our ultimate goal should be to please God through our actions, attitudes, and responses. This requires seeking His guidance and submitting to His authority in every aspect of life, thereby setting a positive example for others and honoring the Lord. [44:18]
Colossians 3:17 - "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him."
Reflection: What are some areas of your life where you struggle to please God, and how can you make changes to align your actions with His will?
Day 5: Embracing Humility for Exaltation in Christ
Humility is the gateway to exaltation in Christ. By humbling ourselves, we acknowledge our need for God and open ourselves to His transformative work. This humility leads to a deeper relationship with God and a life that reflects His grace and mercy. [24:24]
Philippians 2:3-4 - "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others."
Reflection: How can you cultivate a spirit of humility today, and in what ways can this lead to a closer relationship with God?
Quotes
"When we don't get what we want and we respond sinfully, then we know that what we want was wrong—it was a wrong desire." [03:10] (Download)
"My desire is wrong when my motive is selfish; when I want what I want because of me, then I know that my desire is wrong." [03:50] (Download)
"Are you willing to humble yourself before the Lord, not thinking that you're mostly okay and so I have nothing to repent of? Are you willing to humble yourself, hat in hand, and say, 'God, I have nothing for you, and all I want is you because you're life, you're everything for me'?" [25:09] (Download)
"Are you willing to exchange your heart, your desires for His? This is a very difficult task, which is why humility is the only way to come before the Lord, humility when we say, 'God, I can't do it, I can't resist my own desires, but there's one who has lived a sinless life, and that one can do it for me.'" [26:15] (Download)
"Our actions have consequences, and we must consider what those might be. Reflecting on the potential outcomes of our choices can guide us to act in ways that are pleasing to God." [44:18] (Download)
"What should I be wanting? I know what I do want, but what should I be wanting? Well, I should be wanting to please God. This question shifts our focus from our desires to aligning with God's will." [44:18] (Download)
"If we've learned anything from James, it's that the first thing we should do is repent. We should repent humbly before the Lord and then strive to be pleasing to God by submitting to Him and resisting the devil." [45:47] (Download)
"As we begin to submit to Christ in more areas of our lives, we see those areas fall in line with his desires more and more... we begin to experience joy, peace, and much less frustration in our lives." [07:24] (Download)
"It's so freeing to realize that God actually will do the work, that it's not up to me, because the reality is that I can't try hard enough to be good. I need God to be good; I need Jesus to be good." [41:53] (Download)
"I want us to humbly come before the Lord and ask Him to take our desires and exchange them for His desires, take our plans and exchange them for His plans, whatever they are." [42:39] (Download)