A Godly Father's Example: Lessons from Cornelius

Devotional

Day 1: Discipline as a Form of Love

Discipline, when done in love, is a form of teaching and guiding children. It reflects the biblical principle of "sparing the rod and spoiling the child." Discipline should not be confused with abuse; it is a necessary part of raising children to be responsible and godly adults. [27:22]

"Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him." — Proverbs 13:24 (ESV)

Reflection: Think about a recent situation where you had to discipline your child or someone under your care. How can you ensure that your discipline is rooted in love and aimed at guiding them towards godliness?

Day 2: Devotion to God

Being a devout man means worshipping the true and living God, even when society offers many false gods. Cornelius set an example for his household by his unwavering devotion. Fathers today should strive to set a similar spiritual tone for their families, leading by example in worship and devotion. [42:25]

"And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." — Joshua 24:15 (ESV)

Reflection: Reflect on the various "false gods" that society offers today (e.g., materialism, fame, etc.). How can you actively demonstrate your devotion to the true and living God in your daily life and set a spiritual tone for your family?

Day 3: Fear of God

The fear of God is about having a deep reverence and respect for His authority and judgment. This fear leads to wisdom and understanding, as stated in Proverbs 1:7. Just as children respect their earthly fathers, we should respect our Heavenly Father, acknowledging His power and authority in our lives. [54:12]

"The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight." — Proverbs 9:10 (ESV)

Reflection: Consider an area of your life where you may not be fully acknowledging God's authority. How can you cultivate a deeper reverence and respect for God in that area starting today?

Day 4: Power of Prayer

Cornelius understood the power of prayer, praying always and using it as a supernatural tool to address natural problems. Prayer is not just a private act but a public declaration of our dependence on God. It has the power to affect not just the individual but the entire household and community. [01:06:11]

"Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer." — Romans 12:12 (ESV)

Reflection: Think about a specific issue or challenge you are currently facing. How can you incorporate more consistent and fervent prayer into addressing this issue, and how might this impact not just you but those around you?

Day 5: Setting a Godly Example

A godly father sets a positive example for his family by living out Christian principles. This includes being devout, fearing God, and being a man of prayer. Such a father influences his household and community, leading them closer to God through his actions and words. [01:12:02]

"Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us." — Titus 2:7-8 (ESV)

Reflection: Identify one specific area where you can improve in setting a godly example for your family or community. What practical steps can you take this week to live out this improvement?

Sermon Summary

### Summary

Today, we explored the theme of "A Biblical Look at a Godly Father," focusing on the example of Cornelius from Acts 10:1-2. Cornelius, a Roman centurion, was a devout man who feared God, gave generously to those in need, and prayed continually. These attributes are essential for any father striving to be godly. We discussed the importance of discipline, not as a form of abuse but as a means of teaching and guiding children in the way they should go. Discipline, when done in love, reflects the biblical principle of "sparing the rod and spoiling the child."

We also delved into the significance of being a devout man. Cornelius worshipped the true and living God despite living in a society filled with false gods. His devotion was evident in his actions and his household, which followed his example. This devotion is crucial for fathers today, as it sets a spiritual tone for the entire family.

The fear of God was another key point. This fear is not about being afraid but having a deep reverence and respect for God's authority and judgment. Just as children respect their earthly fathers, we should respect our Heavenly Father. This reverence leads to wisdom and understanding, as stated in Proverbs 1:7.

Lastly, we emphasized the power of prayer. Cornelius was a man who prayed always, understanding that prayer is a supernatural tool that can bring about real change in our natural circumstances. Prayer is not just a private act but a public declaration of our dependence on God. It has the power to affect not just the individual but the entire household and community.

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Key Takeaways

1. Discipline as a Form of Love: Discipline, when done in love, is a form of teaching and guiding children. It reflects the biblical principle of "sparing the rod and spoiling the child." Discipline should not be confused with abuse; it is a necessary part of raising children to be responsible and godly adults. [27:22]
2. Devotion to God: Being a devout man means worshipping the true and living God, even when society offers many false gods. Cornelius set an example for his household by his unwavering devotion. Fathers today should strive to set a similar spiritual tone for their families, leading by example in worship and devotion. [42:25]
3. Fear of God: The fear of God is about having a deep reverence and respect for His authority and judgment. This fear leads to wisdom and understanding, as stated in Proverbs 1:7. Just as children respect their earthly fathers, we should respect our Heavenly Father, acknowledging His power and authority in our lives. [54:12]
4. Power of Prayer: Cornelius understood the power of prayer, praying always and using it as a supernatural tool to address natural problems. Prayer is not just a private act but a public declaration of our dependence on God. It has the power to affect not just the individual but the entire household and community. [66:11]
5. Setting a Godly Example: A godly father sets a positive example for his family by living out Christian principles. This includes being devout, fearing God, and being a man of prayer. Such a father influences his household and community, leading them closer to God through his actions and words. [01:12:02]
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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[25:38] - Introduction and Acknowledgments
[27:22] - Discipline as a Form of Love
[28:51] - Preparing Children for Life
[30:34] - A Biblical Look at a Godly Father
[32:33] - Importance of Positive Examples
[35:25] - Difference Between a Male and a Man
[36:56] - Acts of the Holy Spirit
[38:15] - Saul's Damascus Road Experience
[39:28] - Cornelius: A Devout Man
[42:25] - Devotion to God
[45:34] - Impact of Men Worshipping God
[47:35] - Cornelius' Contrarian Faith
[50:30] - Abraham's Devotion to God
[51:41] - Fear of God
[54:12] - Reverence and Respect for God
[56:07] - Job's Faith Amidst Tragedy
[59:02] - Job's Reverence for God
[62:52] - Cornelius: A Praying Man
[66:11] - Power of Prayer
[72:02] - Setting a Godly Example
[75:41] - Closing Remarks and Call to Action
[80:44] - Giving Back to God
[81:52] - Closing Prayer and Farewell

Bible Study Guide

Observation Questions

What are the key attributes of Cornelius as described in Acts 10:1-2?
How did Cornelius' devotion to God influence his household? [30:34]
What does the sermon suggest is the difference between discipline and abuse? [27:22]
How did Cornelius demonstrate his fear of God according to the sermon? [51:41]

Interpretation Questions

Why is it significant that Cornelius was a devout man in a society filled with false gods? [42:25]
How does the fear of God lead to wisdom and understanding, as mentioned in Proverbs 1:7? [54:12]
What role does prayer play in the life of a godly father, according to the sermon? [01:06:11]
How can a father's example of devotion and prayer impact his family and community? [45:34]

Application Questions

Reflect on your own approach to discipline. How can you ensure that your discipline is a form of love and not abuse? [27:22]
In what ways can you demonstrate your devotion to God in your daily life, especially in a society that may offer many distractions or false gods? [42:25]
How can you cultivate a deeper fear of God in your life, and what practical steps can you take to show reverence and respect for His authority? [54:12]
Think about your current prayer life. How can you make prayer a more consistent and powerful part of your daily routine? [01:06:11]
Identify one specific way you can set a godly example for your family this week. How can your actions and words lead them closer to God? [01:12:02]
How can you encourage your family to participate in prayer and devotion together? What are some practical ways to make this a regular practice in your household? [45:34]
Consider a time when you faced a difficult situation. How did your faith and prayer help you through it? How can you use that experience to encourage others in your family or community? [56:51]

Sermon Clips

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "We are who we are because of people like fathers and mothers in our lives. So we are truly never so thankful for what they do and the relationship that's there and more importantly the example that's there as well." (16 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "To know that God loves me the way he loves me. And he's done for me what nobody else could do for me. And that is to forgive me. And to say, I love you. save my soul." (16 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "We should never be afraid. Or ashamed. To worship God. If God has given you two hands. You ought to use them to clap. For his kingdom's glory. If he's given you a heart and a mind to make it to his house of worship. We should do just that. Worship. Amen." (36 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "We need to understand something here. We've got to understand that they're going to talk about you anyway. They're going to talk about the house you live in. They're going to talk about the car you drive. They're going to talk about the clothes you wear. They're going to talk about your hair. They're going to talk about your skin tone. They're going to talk about your shoes. They're just going to talk about you." (26 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "When you know God, you know what he's capable of doing in your life. And this also reminds me of another man by the name of Abraham. Genesis chapter number 22, God instructed Abraham to take his son Isaac up to the mountain. To present him as a sacrifice. Before God." (23 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "But in order for a man... To be a godly father, I need y'all to hear me on this, he must have a relationship with God, the Father. Amen. the reason behind that is so those same characteristics and attributes of God can be displayed to those that he comes in contact with. You see, reality tells us that there is a difference. Between a male and a man. obvious difference, if you will, is that a male has the potential to produce offspring. a man can do that and take care of his offspring. see, he's able to do that well. When he knows God for himself. And he applies those Christian principles to his life." (84 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "Cornelius recognized that there was supernatural power in prayer. And being a devout man, one could assume that he was probably familiar with Jeremiah chapter 29 and verse number 13 where it says, And ye shall seek me and find me when ye shall search for me with all your heart. That's a powerful verse of scripture. Why? Because we can't half-heartedly go after God. I think it was Cedric the Entertainer who says, we can't go before God. Here's what he said all willy-nilly. We've gotta be real with God because God is being real with us." (50 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "When a godly father prays over his household, the supernatural power of God shows up. prayer has the power to change things and people. I'm trying to hurry to a close, but how many of us have run into people or we know people that whenever you talk to them, they have a nasty attitude. You talk to them and nothing positive ever comes out of their mouth. You try to encourage them with something positive and they look at it the wrong way." (69 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "So in closing, if a father is in here today, and they want to live up to their God-given assignment and destiny, we've got to be devout fathers. We've got to be fathers who fears God. And we have to be praying fathers. Jesus, if you will, gives us the best example of having the same characteristics and attributes of another, or if you will, of his Father. And he displayed them on a daily basis. Those things that related to God the Father." (46 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "Jesus demonstrated love. The Bible tells us in John 3, we're going to read it in a little while, it says, God so loved the world. And Jesus demonstrated love. Jesus, if you will, demonstrated a forgiving spirit. Y'all know how it is sometimes. I'll forgive you, I won't forget. And you might as well not have even said those words. Because you're not operating in true forgiveness. Because you see, God tells us, even in the book of Isaiah, he says, I will forgive your transgressions for mine own sake. And then he says, and remember them no more. That's a true forgiving spirit." (54 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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