The old South Pacific lyric, “You’ve got to be carefully taught,” names the terrible way hatred and fear get handed down before children are “six or seven or eight.” The sin of othering keeps showing up in names like George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Renee Goode, Cohen Wiley, unnamed immigrants, and every person treated as less than because of skin paint, accent, origin, religion, gender, politics, or any other label of separation. The image of God appears not as isolated pieces ranked by power, but as broken fragments that together make one huge mosaic.
Genesis gives a profoundly disturbing story in Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar. Hagar, an Egyptian slave woman, is used as a convenience when Sarah and Abraham remain childless, and Scripture gives no reason to think she has any real say in the matter. God, however, speaks directly to Hagar, a foreigner, a slave, and a woman, making her the first woman in Scripture to receive that kind of direct divine speech. God’s attention falls exactly where the world’s power structures do not look, upon the lowly, the disenfranchised, the oppressed, and the degraded.
Sarah’s treatment of Hagar changes once Isaac is born. Hagar and Ishmael move from necessary to disposable, and Abraham fails to stand up against the demand to cast them into the desert. Ishmael’s cry from under the bush sounds painfully close to George Floyd calling for his mama with his last breaths. God hears Hagar’s grief and Ishmael’s cries, provides water, and promises that Ishmael too will become a great nation.
Matthew’s Gospel places Jesus’ words about sparrows in the hard call of discipleship. “Are not two sparrows sold for a penny?” Jesus asks, and yet not one falls without God knowing. The sparrow image says that the discounted, the poor, the pushed down, and the disposable are worth far more than the world says. Jesus’ way of love threatens every power structure built on haves and have nots, insiders and outsiders.
The sword Jesus brings is the division that comes when God’s love cuts across the world’s priorities. The way of Jesus calls disciples to teach children something different from inherited fear, to have uncomfortable conversations, to listen with hearts as well as ears, and to act boldly. Hagar’s basket becomes a living sign of that way, providing necessities to neighbors in need just as God provided water in the desert. Walking with Jesus remains a conscious choice, made again and again, sometimes many times in the same day.
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Key Takeaways
- 1. Hatred has to be carefully taught [29:30] The old lyric tells the truth about prejudice: fear is not innocent, and contempt is not natural wisdom. The sin of othering usually gets passed down through family habits, social assumptions, silence, jokes, and inherited loyalties long before it becomes public violence. Christian faith cannot treat these patterns as harmless background noise, because children learn what adults normalize. [29:30]
- 2. God speaks to the thrown-away [32:37] Hagar stands in Scripture as a foreigner, a slave, and a woman, yet God speaks directly to her. That detail matters because divine attention does not follow the world’s ranking system. The person treated as useful, then disposable, is seen by God with a dignity no human hierarchy can erase. [32:37]
- 3. The sparrow is never insignificant [35:19] Jesus chooses a tiny, cheap market bird to reveal the strange economy of God. The sparrow image does not deny suffering, but it refuses the lie that the suffering are unseen. Every life counted as replaceable by the world is held in the intimate knowledge of God. [35:19]
- 4. Love cuts against worldly power [36:22] Jesus’ sword is not permission for cruelty, but a warning that real love will divide from the priorities of domination. A life steeped in God’s love threatens systems built on haves and have nots, insiders and outsiders. The way of Jesus cannot be made comfortable for structures that survive by making people disposable. [36:22]
- 5. Mercy becomes visible in practice [38:51] Hagar’s basket shows that love is not only a feeling toward the suffering, but material care for neighbors in need. Personal hygiene items and cleaning supplies become more than supplies when they answer the world’s contempt with dignity. The way of Jesus becomes credible when the church keeps its eyes on the sparrow.
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Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [26:55] - South Pacific and Carefully Taught Hate
- [29:54] - Headlines, Othering, and God’s Image
- [31:58] - Hagar, Sarah, and Abraham
- [32:37] - God Speaks Directly to Hagar
- [33:14] - Hagar and Ishmael Cast Out
- [34:09] - God Hears the Cry in the Desert
- [34:58] - Jesus, Sparrows, and Courage
- [36:22] - Love That Divides from Worldly Power
- [37:26] - Teaching the Way of Love
- [38:51] - Hagar’s Basket in Practice
- [39:25] - Choosing to Walk with Jesus