Menlo Church

But in God's blueprints, love isn't the paint. It's the beams. You don't always see the beams. You don't understand necessarily what's behind that wall. They aren't always the most attractive. But if you remove them because you're bored with them, the roof will cave in on your head. It will happen if you're doing a renovation of your house, and it will happen if you think about love overly simplistically. Love isn't something that just makes life look good. It's something that keeps our life from collapsing.