Heartland Church of Sun Prairie

First of all, forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling. In fact, you could argue you will never feel like forgiving because forgiveness is not fair. It is unfair. We have been hurt. There is a debt owed. So forgiveness is unfair. So there's a good chance you will never feel like forgiving, which is why it's not a feeling. It is a decision that you make. Dave Willis, in his book, says, Holding a grudge doesn't make you strong. It makes you bitter. Forgiving doesn't make you weak. It sets you free.