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That's all you're saying. You're saying I am freeing you and I am freeing me from being held hostage by what you did. I'm not gonna hold on to the resentment anymore. Fisher has a quote about this. She says, resentment is like drinking poison and then waiting for the other person to die, which doesn't work. We tried that. Right? Think about the resentful people you know. You know, we don't we don't wanna grow into that resentful kinda bitter person, but when we choose to carry resentment around in our heart and in our life, often for years, it doesn't actually it doesn't do anything to that other person. They don't even know. Right? You're not poisoning them. You're poisoning you.